I think part of my fascination with the topic was directly linked to my strong need to please the guys I had sex with. Sure, you could look at videos to see how other people got pounded but deep inside, you always knew they were acting. Who would have thought gay acceptance carried such perks?
This is part two of Bottoming Then I found a video. That moment sealed the truth: Bottoming was real, and I had no clue how to do it.
Oct Now, when you are a hormonal, shy and unconfident person such as myself at least back then, anyway — the thought that someone would actually want to have sex with me was enough for me to completely drop my guard and say OK! Unfortunately, they seemed more concerned with how good it felt for them, rather than how comfortable I was.
We are all pretty obsessed with penetration. And if you were to believe pornography—something that, at this stage, we should all know is not an accurate sexual how-to guide—anal sex is the ultimate goal when two guys get together. Dating back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role in the expression of same-sex sexuality albeit, with fewer varieties of lube. The art of anal sex is the thing that, both positively and negatively, has come to represent gay men.
Sex may be something that nearly everyone does, but the way each person prepares for it is not necessarily the same. When it comes to anal sex particularly, the type of preparation can be even more specific and can vary by the role of the person participating. Some people use cleansers, supplements, or nothing at all.
When I was little, my father would drag my sister and me out in the cold morning in camouflage outfits and orange hats to sit with him in a deer stand and practice shooting his gun. This was a necessity for a young boy in the South. While his tutelage never stuck, he might be surprised to learn that I still grew up to be a hunter.
Let's talk about gay sex — because even inmisconceptions are seemingly inescapable. Maybe that's because sex between men or women, for that matter is still all but absent from mainstream media. In fact, the Elton John biopic "Rocketman," released in May, is reportedly the first big-budget studio film with a sex scene between two men.
Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give it a try but not sure how to begin? This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play.
A little Butt Sex During a recent dinner with friends, the PG conversation took an inevitable turn toward matters of a sexual nature — anal sex, in particular. I was at a table with mostly heterosexual women, and though anal play has become a growing fascination for the media, nearly every single one of my friends had yet to try it themselves.